© 2019 by Love Dominates

Dating again?

18.12.2017

Let’s talk about trying to get back into the dating world as a alienated parent...first of all we have trust issues and rightly so...then how do you explain you are a parent but your kids have erased you from their lives...and well...they are very vocal about their hate for you...how do you explain this without being judged...I mean you must have done something... right... to make your kids hate you...after all why would they completely block you from their lives and never see you...if you are severely alienated like me...you have been blocked from every which way...phones, social media...I know the reaction I get just from trying to explain to people... they just don’t understand...now dating with all the added baggage that we already have, plus trying to explain alienation...well...that usually ends with no response after you tell them...so how do we move on with our lives...become a sad recluse... which actually is a good way of dealing with alienation, after all there are so many triggers out there... even a trip to the mall seeing mothers with their adult daughters shopping together...can end up with me rushing back to my car so I can come home and cry in private...do we leave the country change our names...pretend we never got married or ever had children...I mean seriously ...this is our lives...I sometimes feel so judged and I am so tired of trying to explain this abuse without sounding like a crazy person...honestly because I know if you have a relationship your going to have to talk about it...being a parent never goes away...it’s easier not to put yourself out there...it’s lonely and sometimes you just need a hug...in my case every day really...

 

 

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